Dating after 25 is hard as fuck.
Knowing I only have one reader - Hi Lun - might as well talk about dating here.
Let's go.
So I'm 27 this year, most of my friends are either married or in a committed relationship, so it is hard to hangout, thank god I'm perfectly comfortable going alone, but I guess sometimes you want that old school camaraderie, enjoying each other company without thinking much, but I guess thinking much comes with age and the responsibility that comes with it.
I guess - I'm doing a lot of guessing here - this is exactly why I'm starting to think about getting a girlfriend, I guess, or at least a date.
A date with coworker is strictly prohibited, but coworker's friends is okay, but coworker's friends is also either married or in a committed relationship, lots of em.
So me being tried and tested guy, thinking about approaching some old friends that I think is pretty fun to be around with, but nah after not talking for probably a decade and suddenly ask to hangout is weird as fuck.
I mean let's go back to college days, the circumstances helps a lot, meeting new people and having a crush here and there is accepted and even expected in college, in work? not so much.
I guess I'm currently can't see a scenario where suddenly I met someone and thinking "oh she's great, need to approach her"
Well, that kind of thinking never comes into my mind, those "wow she's great will chat her first", in every single crush that I've experienced, it's always about the small moments that makes me "oh shit she's awesome", after accumulating probably hundreds of other small moments.
I mean, I'm okay doing shits alone, but I'm at that phase where I feel like I need that connection, and the responsibilities and trade offs that come with it.
Fuck being drunk, fuck having all these defenses down and vulnerable as fuck.
