i kinda hate wedding reception, i found it to be a measuring dick arena.
wedding is a place where you meet that person you have no bussiness with for the last few years, and it usually turns into some petty competition.
are you single? "when will you get a girl/boyfriend?"
oh somehow you do have a significant other, "when will you get married?"
oh, you're married? no child? they'll ask you about the first, already have a child? how about second? already have three children? where do they go to school? state or private? good or bad? cheap or expensive?
i'm sick of it really, it always ends up as a competition.
and honestly i don't see the point of inviting hundreds of people, let alone thousands.
come on, most of those marriage end up in a dumpster, yes they still married, but shitfest happened, cheating here and there.
and of course, i'm a dude.
in an equal society, and i mean, truly equal society, the ladies - assuming we're all mainstream, you know, heterosexual - would have no problem having a dude who earn less - lots of people do see annual earning as some measurements - as long as they're happy.
in an utopian society in my dream, a great women would have no problem having a normal dude, and a dude would not feel insecure being stay at home dad.
but in reality, those are not happening, not in my lifetime here in Indonesia.
i mean, rather than spending my already small earning to a person in exchange of love, i'd rather spend it to finance my lifesize armored batman.
but then again, i'm single, jaded, cynical, and not in love.